Sunday, March 6, 2011

Toyfriend Coney -- a Ride to remember Babeland LES Rivington NYC

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Cher "You Haven't Seen The Last of Me" Cher Shines! Love you Cher, Evye Stanten

I love Cher.  I thought she was perfectly beautiful as she was and should not have gone the  surgery like thinning out her nose.

I watched Burlesque and here is the Cher review from The New York Times.   Please click on link to see photo credit as well.

Cher has this "alone time" on an empty set to sing "You Haven't Seen The Last of Me" and I was moved.  For me it was THE best part of the movie and I can't find it available to buy unless I want to endure her voice competing with a bunch of tech-effects.  Like Lady Gaga she uses technology when she should let her voice be the most important part of the expression.

I love you Cher.   I just bought some of her old music and I find her enduring, compelling and aging like real good wine, she just gets better with age even if she had some nips, tucks, etc.

Cher you are an interesting person.  There are so many people that don't want to see the last of you.

Love you Cher.

Oh my gosh, there really is a gay man trapped inside my body!

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Rune Olsen Hottie Artist Sex-ploration is Animal!

All images copyright of the artist An icompendium Site 
http://runeolsen.net/
Here is his website and his artist statement is worth checking out.



Another Pro-Sex Woman Blogger on Vacation Fing NY

http://fuckingny.com/
Really this young woman is amazing.  She has this website and she is out there with her pro-sex -- sex-i-tudeness!!!!

Her lovers don't know but she doesn't out them and mention their names...one quick look is a sexy description of an adorable well endowed guy!

My gay boyfriend, ok that means a guy friend who is gay, we are not sex partners, we were talking about the Iphone having this sex app for gay men to hook up and have random sex!  He knows my stand-up comedy about being a gay man so he suggested I create an App for women.  I told him something that I won't share with you and made him laugh very, very hard.

I said the world is not ready for straight women to have that kind of equality yet.

Anyway this woman is a blast and very daring because even in NYC there are seriously sexually repressed or sexually f-uped people.

I am pro-sex but there is nothing random about unkind people and I advise anyone not to have sex with someone that is not respectful positive and kind.

Enjoy have fun and respect each others rules, rules!

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Four Kinky Valentine's Day Ideas

Not going to rock my world but maybe you might like 'em.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa_60/84_love_secrets.html


Hey wake-up!

German Porn Star Cora dead after 4 breast implants

http://www.hollywoodlife.com/2011/01/21/german-porn-star-dead-cora-carolin-berger-2/

Do not get all that painful plastic surgery if you can avoid it and so young....very sad.

The Dark Side of Valentine's Day -- "V" Violence, Cathy got a card, chocolates and than murdered

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20029937-504083.html

Valentine's Day is a big money day for the business sector but it has a really dark side and this story is as dark as it gets.


No one can feel the love every day although it is something to shoot for.  Showing the low counts more than anything you can buy.

Friday, February 4, 2011

Love On

I know I have lots of kinky people visiting this blog.  I can tell from the traffic sources and I have to say my favorite getting it on is just a lover no x-tra anything needed.



I have read and watched all kinds of things but truly I would not want to live it.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Lisa Cholodenko "The Kids Are All Right" but how about knowledge of women's external signs of arousal? by Evye Stanten

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I watched the film "The Kids Are All Right" and Lisa Chodokeno remains a dynamic and interesting film maker but I had to question her choice of two Lesbian Moms watching gay men porn flicks and explaining to their teenage son that female lesbian porn features straight women (*implying below par) and that gay men show external signs of sexual excitement women don't.

The medical doctor (gyno/obstetrician?)   Mom proudly comes home one afternoon bragging about how many fibroid tumors she has removed.  Can she treat me?  I haven't touched mine for fear of upsetting my high **sex drive and also I can't find an medical doctor like her that is covered by my health insurance.

The fictional MD character seems to know little else about women's sexuality because if she did she would know females have just as dramatic signs of external excitement..   The clitoris is like an uncircumcised penis with a hood.  When women get genital piercings they tend to pick their hood that cover the clitoris - I should say the glans of the clitoris.  The clitoris has a head, the glans,  which when excited just like a penis is erect and can be seen if one bothers to look!  The "head" top part of the  glans can be seen excited or not. There are obvious signs of external excitement and one is wetness and two is erections and engorgement.  The breasts actually get bigger and so does everything else in a beautiful way.  You should hopefully know the drill, or rather the signs, including even the face show signs of excitement, breathing,  nipples, etc.

There are an entire series of lesbian filmed porno, lesbians starring in porno so that scene with the teenage boy and the Lesbian Moms and Gay Men porno needed to be scraped or seriously re-worked.

I am amazed at the wealthy lifestyles of the women in Cholodenko's film but this time I was taken aback on the women's sexuality "lack of eternal excitement" line as well as wondering why Cholodenko did not hire Lesbian actors instead of straight ones...I guess like the Lesbian Porno, Cholodenko is missing out on something that plenty of people are tuned in to and ready for although not enough at all....


As blog readers know I used to rent DVD's on sexuality from a women owned adult store until the police raided the store and for some obscure reason renting adult films which I found educational is now criminal.  I am sure the police were through in their investigation of the DVDs.

Sexual McCarthyism lives.

On a positive note, Cholodenko's films are worth watching and I recommend seeing them if you haven't checked them out.

* Jenna Jameson could prove these fictional characters wrong.


**Last time I checked women are not suppose to have high sex drives.   We are told we do not think about sex as often as men.   A lot of what I have been told is ridiculous and ignorant.  If women are to be frisky it is from some pill they should take but in reality with women how you treat us impacts a lot of our desires as well as how we feel about ourselves....get the picture?  When I discuss this with my doctors they seem kind of surprised.   Sexually, women and the majority of people that are interested in our sexuality male and female are in the dark ages with even more that have no interest at all.  I am not a sex addict so I don't do anything stupid or dangerous but I sure feel like I am in a minority in a lot of ways.


p.s.

http://www.enotalone.com/article/6611.html   Here is one of many articles on hoods and clitoris but in the beginning it states a clitoris maybe hard to see -- I do not agree.  Just look!  But otherwise the article looks okay. There are plenty of articles and if you are interested just Google the words and read the many articles and once you do you can learn even more to please a woman.  It takes using your brains as well as your other body parts.  The more of them you use the more fun for you and your lover.

Going back to my "vacation".

Monday, January 10, 2011

Evye Stanten on vacation good bye for now

First to the kinky guy following my brand spanking new blog, wow and thank you.  To create a new blog and find myself with someone open and out there following me was very touching.

I have 2 people that immediately go from Facebook to this blog so for them as well I am done posting at least for now.

Why?

It is a lot of work and I can't really do what I want to here.  I also want to earn money writing about these themes which would mean a high volume of  postings as in a lot of work and looking for sponsors and I don't have time.

I had a nightmarish experience with Google Ad Words way back and they did not make amends.  I wasn't going to sue them but it proved they were not set up to work with erotic and non-fiction writers not in the porn industry.  I believe Google Ad Words mishap, Google's fault although they did nothing except say oops sorry, damaged a relationship with a paying employer (major presence online)  I had signed a contract with.

I was deeply honored that Tera Patrick and Belladonna or whom ever runs their Facebook pages picked me up write or should I say right away.  I thought about removing this blog completely but for that reason alone I am keeping it up.   Ditto for the Germaine Greer Facebook page and Betty Dodson who really was and is a dynamo radically changing and empowering women sexually.  She did something unique that no sex toy manufacturer ever did and that was create something to strengthen kegel muscles that also happen to give you sexual pleasure.

I met the owner of Jimmy Jane and his rep. and asked them to please start designing toys that will strengthen our muscles as well as give us pleasure.  He nodded and his eyes glazed over.  The rep. had promised to send me their newest toy because of the review I wrote and FYI, Jimmy Jane did not keep their promise.   Do you think I am going to rush out and buy any Jimmy Jane products any time soon?

Also note: it is about relaxing muscles as much as strengthening them.  I have seen many people rip Betty Dodson off on lots of levels but truly Betty Dodson did work educating and empowering women like no one else and they women that ripped off her work missed the mark.  Isn't that always the case. One group of women actually marketed a rip-off of Betty's Barbell and stop carrying Betty's Barbell in their store.  Today the rip-off is gone and Betty' Barbell is back.


I also use to submit my writing both fiction and non-fiction to women editors for book publication and I don't anymore.  I have been published on line but have yet to make it in to the books.  I also made it a point of never buying any books these women edit ever again.  I realized I did not want to support their choices since their choice included excluding me.   There was one exception, an amazing woman who did give me help when I asked her for help with an online project.  Can I tell you I once defended a woman who ended up rejecting every submission of mine.   A brief lover of mine told me he is her friend.  I wanted to vomit. Is there a way to take back standing up for someone?  I can't help but think I defended a vapid empty headed girl-woman who happen to be in the right place a the right time or knew someone.  How ironic I would get together with someone who considers her a friend.  It is also about networking and I just don't.

Is it because I am not gay, bi., because I am the real deal but have never done porno, dancing, etc.?

I don't fit into any group.  As Kermit the Frog says it isn't easy being green.  But it is all about groups isn't it?

I have found nothing upsets people more than authenticity.   There are a lot of people out there that are posers.  They got what they got because of who they know and who they blow.  I have never dated anyone or did anything sexually with anyone to help my career.  Does that mean I have a low sexual IQ?

I met two women that wrote books that are empowering who were in the industry and one still is .   There books were the real deal and smart  but real life contact with them made me want to have no contact with them.  I threw away their books.

I would like to get my work of fiction and non-fiction  in a series of books at some point.  I have to laugh because everyone on the planet seems to have published a book except for me.

Authenticity is beautiful and exciting.
Thanks for checking out my blog.

This is my last posting for now.
Love,
Evye

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Read about SEX

Want to raise your sexual IQ?  Read!

http://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Woman-Discover-Pleasure-Vitality/dp/B000RL9OCW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1294598190&sr=1-1

http://www.multiorgasmicwoman.com/
On this website they have a free download "healing sound" which is to help you with your sexual health as well as with your sex life.

http://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Man-Sexual-Secrets-Should/dp/0062513362
Just go to Amazon and in their search engine type something about sex that you are interested in and see if they have a book that might raise your sexual awareness, knowledge or both.

Sad my girlfriend broke up with her girlfriend by Evye Stanten

My girlfriend broke-up with her girlfriend.

What do you say to comfort your friend?

They say *chocolate is good for you when you deal with breaking up with someone because chocolate has the same chemical in it that our brain releases when we are high on love.

I also suggested a bath to soothe herself, hug her dog and listen to soothing tapes that are particular favorites of mine but I know that is not her thing.

Look in your treasure box and pull out a happy memory with anyone or anything and hit rewind -- give your brain a chance to focus on something happy or peaceful just for a minute.

I am straight but not part of the mainstream relationship world and gay and straight seem to be more and more mainstream these days.

* I think I read that in the http://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Woman-Discover-Pleasure-Vitality/dp/B000RL9OCW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1294598190&sr=1-1
If I did it was a long time ago.

The also have the Multi-Orgasmic Man book as well.

Saturday, January 8, 2011

Sexual Fitness Key Ingredients + Better Sex Diet in Forbes Magazine

http://lucreziamagazine.com/2011/01/05/sexual-fitness-key-ingredients/

This is actually a good piece and I found it on Facebook under "The Pleasure Coach"


The above link lead to this article: Better Sex Diet published in Forbes
http://www.forbes.com/2005/03/17/cx_vg_0317feat.html

wealthy gay man murdered castrated vs. global alarming statistics of female castration, girls women murdered

A wealthy gay man, 65 was murdered in an fancy mid-town hotel NYC, USA and he now joins the statistics re: murder.
Google
female castration
honor killings
female babies murdered
violence towards women


and get a glimpse in to global alarming violence directed at females from babies on up....

Friday, January 7, 2011

10 Fun Sex Facts She Knows

http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/803194/fun-sex-facts

7 Fun Sex Positions Ask Men

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_250/274_love_tip.html

sometimes less is more...wink, wink

Lada Gaga in barely there Bondage dress Plaza Hotel - BDSM a fashion statement

Everywhere I look Bondage seems to be a hot topic and mainstream as well...


http://www.nypost.com/p/pagesix/lady_hooks_em_pcf9Y4JJkjnkpf4K2YrFBO

Many popular women singers love their BDSM for videos and fashion statements....the list is too long....post from Lady Gaga fan -- a video....

http://earsucker.com/2010/01/29/video-lady-gagas-teeth/

http://shetoldme.com/Entertainment/Lady-Gagas-Fetish-Fashion


The most boring unsexy Sex book ever published was by......
a) Madonna
b) Madonna
c) Madonna
e) all of the above

BDSMexpert -- BDSM is not my thing but I have a new follower on Twitter who is a sexual champion

My blog is brand spanking new so I am glad I am finding such a diverse group of people interested.  Karen found me on Twitter.  I know I have a lot of BDSM readers so you might want to check out her twitter page.

Here is just one example and it involves a married BDSM couple pushing boundaries....
http://ask.metafilter.com/174485/Can-GGG-stand-for-Great-Gregarious-Genial


The above link mentions toddler and that is interesting to me...how do you keep your sex life hot and also deal with the kids if you have them....just wonder for all sex enthusiasts not just BDSM.



I am not in to restraints -- so much of that stuff in every day life at the office -- just joking sort of...


karen travis

@bdsmexpert411 Seattle, Washington
I'm a sexual champion ready to help you get to the next level with expert advice on SM and BDSM. Adults only!!!




clit envy vs. penis envy

Clit envy -- the chapter Freud left out....talk about a Freudian slip.