My girlfriend broke-up with her girlfriend.
What do you say to comfort your friend?
They say *chocolate is good for you when you deal with breaking up with someone because chocolate has the same chemical in it that our brain releases when we are high on love.
I also suggested a bath to soothe herself, hug her dog and listen to soothing tapes that are particular favorites of mine but I know that is not her thing.
Look in your treasure box and pull out a happy memory with anyone or anything and hit rewind -- give your brain a chance to focus on something happy or peaceful just for a minute.
I am straight but not part of the mainstream relationship world and gay and straight seem to be more and more mainstream these days.
* I think I read that in the http://www.amazon.com/Multi-Orgasmic-Woman-Discover-Pleasure-Vitality/dp/B000RL9OCW/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1294598190&sr=1-1
If I did it was a long time ago.
The also have the Multi-Orgasmic Man book as well.