There is a lot people can fake, a lot of lip service and I am not talking about the sexy kind but the phony kind kissing ass so all I can say to you is love passionately and authentically.
I do not believe in main stream ideas of love like marriage because more than half of marriages end in divorce and there are plenty of marriages that stay together for economic reasons and or the kids...whatever I believe in live and let live as along as what you do is between consenting adults and you are not hurting anyone.
Really who's business is it and who really cares anyway.
Even with celebrity scandals, people check in but really truly don't care and why should they.
"
To thine own self be true."
wrote Williams Shakespeare and by the way he could be quite bawdy and earthy as well as intellectually brilliant.
To thine own self be true and embrace your passion and even better if you can share your passion in some original authentic way with your lover.
Maybe that way is just being you and the gentlest sweetest kiss and a hug. It doesn't have to be Sexual Olympics or the newest hottest sex toy but just an authentic expression of love or lust or both.